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10 hours into labor

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Pregnancy is a beautiful journey and perhaps the last solitary adventure before life's responsibilities profoundly change a woman. Although she will emerge safe, her body will inevitably be transformed.  After spending nine months awaiting my baby's arrival, it was finally time to welcome him into the world. My 36th week ultrasound indicated that all was well & my pregnancy was proceeding as per plan. The radiologist suggested we opt for delivering the baby sooner instead of waiting for entire 40 weeks to complete citing if baby's weight increases chances of normal delivery goes down. However, my obstetrician suggested to wait.  Unexpectedly, events took a different turn. On January 21st, I craved Aloo Tikki (an Indian street food) and asked my mother to prepare at home. After eating seven of them, my blood pressure spiked. I informed my doctor & she asked that I visit her the next day. Both my mother & mother-in-law, in slight worry, accompanied me to the clin...

6 truths they don't tell you about Corporate Working

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Here are 6 sweet & brutal truths that no one tells you about corporate work culture. This will specifically benefit new, honest & hardworking employees who do not understand (South Asian organizations') corporate game. They either take too long to understand the backdrop which delays their initial career or break down & are forced to leave their dream jobs because of frustration.  Do not worry you folks, just understand the below simple points & identify them early enough to be smart enough to deal with it.  1. You are super intelligent?  Well, my dear friend in a capitalist, bureaucratic, revenue making organization your intelligence is of any value only when you can either add a good proportion of revenue or save costs for them which above all must be noticeable . Otherwise, your intelligent idea will be taken away by your boss & your intelligence will merely be a case study. Also, for intelligent employees, such organizations are not the right place...

My 9 months of Human Creation

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  Every year millions of women witness a beautiful journey called the creation of life;  some first timers, some already experienced moms, some young, some old & mature to understand these changes, some planned & prepared to take on this journey while others unplanned, astonished, unprepared & not ready to accept this change any time soon. Mine is this last case. June 2024 is when I got to know that I am expecting the unexpected. It was a wave of emotions when I tested using the kit. I ended up immediately throwing it in the dustbin after testing positive - yes, I did . When I came out of the restroom, my spouse casually enquired about the result to which I smiled and unwillingly said it's positive. I suppose even he was not ready as he thought that I am pulling his leg & asked me to get the kit out of the dustbin to assess for himself.  I had always been a professionally focussed person, never been too serious about any relationship or rather never willin...